Protective Order Violations in Bexar County — Why the Protected Party Contacting You Is Not a Defense
A protective order issued in Bexar County courts is a court order that runs against the restrained party — not the protected party. When a protective order prohibits contact, it prohibits you from making contact with the protected party. It does not prohibit them from contacting you. If the protected party calls you, texts you, comes to your residence, or otherwise initiates contact — and you respond — you may have violated the protective order. Their initiation of contact is not a legal defense to your violation of the order’s terms.
This is one of the most misunderstood aspects of protective orders in Bexar County and one of the most common reasons people find themselves facing a violation charge after a good-faith response to contact from the protected party. The correct response when a protected party contacts you in violation of the spirit of the order is to end the contact immediately and document it. Responding — even briefly, even kindly — can constitute contact that violates the order’s terms.
Bexar County protective order violations are prosecuted by DA Joe Gonzales’s Family Violence Unit under the same no-drop prosecution policy as the underlying family violence case. The FVU pursues violations even when the protected party does not cooperate. The evidence is typically a text message thread, phone records, location data, or a responding SAPD officer’s observations. Call 210-692-4913 immediately.
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